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Reflection on the Start to the Year

First Published: 2025 February 28

Draft 2: 28 February

As the second month of the year comes to a close, I was reminded by a dear friend that it has been a while since last I updated my blog. The first draft of this post contains more ramblings and ideas, but my ideal blog post1 is much tighter and cleaner.2 Where my writing, like my mind, is meant to ramble, I prefer to have asides in the footnotes. With that in mind3, let’s reflect and, like all interactions, plot towards the future.4

Since the year began, I’ve managed to make progress on a fair number of my goals for the year, and possibly more importantly, I’ve also revised my goals for the year, incorporating both more time to think and the lived experiences that I have from attempting them. The only major difference is that I no longer have a goal relating to drawing or art of that kind. More than that, I now know that when I feel as though I should learn to draw, I simply have a short lull in my life, and some activity is soon to require my attention.

As we look towards the next month and period of the year5, it seems worthwhile to explicitly state some goals, so that I can reflect on them. Given my inability to write those reflections without finding any number of sidebars6, and given that they didn’t appear until at least a few thousand words in, let’s rewrite them. My goals can broadly be grouped into: Professional, Health, Other.7 Other is wrong, but I can’t find the word right now to describe the connecting thread for them that doesn’t also mean professional or health related goals.8

Well, when spelled out, that’s both a lot and not many goals at all!

I think that it’s also probably smart for me to break the goals into one-offs and continuing goals:

Despite how long this list appears, it’s really a very discrete number of things. More importantly, most all of the continuous goals are me attempting to orient myself. That is, rather than trying to get to writing daily poetry, I just want daily poetry to be on my mind going forward. Well, more than 6000 words later, I think that I should call this reflection here.

Draft 1: 28 February

It’s officially the end of the second month of the year. It has been a little over a month since the last time I posted here, and that’s not great, especially given the goals that I’ve had. Let’s use this space18 and look through what our goals were for the year19 and see how resonant they still are, along with how much I have made progress on them.

Let’s start with the things that I’m excited for this year.

Moving on to my January goals, which I’m also going to treat as February goals:

Finally, with my yearly goals:

So, two thousand words in33, what is the summary of my reflection?

I’m generally doing better than I thought I was on my goals, even if I’m doing far worse than the me of early January had hoped.

Before I answer “What do I want to work on in the month of March?”, let’s get some highlights of the past two months out of the way, because focusing on the good is better when framing my future.

Wow, that’s way more than I thought, and I had to go back multiple times to add more and more to the list. Honestly, I feel way better about a lot now that I have that all down there. It is wild to me how much just sitting and reflecting does to make me feel centered, and I do absolutely need to make more of a point of doing so.

Looking into March, what’s on the docket?

This set of goals is markedly different than the one at year beginning, and I feel comfortable with the changes. Mostly, they come from me realizing that my priorities are starting to focus on excelling in the areas I care about, rather than trying to become competent at even more areas that I have no true need for.50

In a slightly more coherent manner, the goals I have for March:

Woo! We did it! Only 4500 words to vaguely get my point across. Let’s revise this so that i can make it a little easier to follow


  1. truthfully, I’d like all my writing to be so, but as someone (I think Twain) said, something something if I had more time I’d have written less

  2. hmm the choice of adjectives I made comes with a lot of connotations. Why is a more concise (the word I forgot) writing cleaner?

  3. wow a lot of w sentences

  4. that metaphor failed, but that’s fine. In general I was thinking how like ripples from a pond you can trace time in both directions. Idk

  5. since Lent is about to begin

  6. which I think is a boating reference? should look that up

  7. wild how all categorizations work when you add an other

  8. personal, for instance, doesn’t work, because health is an incredibly personal goal

  9. I do love nested lists, and nested things generally, as a group member pointed out (about my code)

  10. I break into physical, mental, and spiritual, not because I think that I am these three discrete things, but because I think most of my goals primarily target one of the three aspects of me, and the effects that they have on the rest of me are harder to quantify (not that all goals need to be quantifiable)

  11. be it physical or digital

  12. elements of this hit professional, because it is potentially part of the thesis work

  13. are essential to my mental health, and I know this

  14. even ignoring that not everyone and I had a deep connection over my mom dying, that’s only good for a single letter I think. Also, I want them to be potentially light, rather than always heavy. “Hi Friend, I love you and hope you’re doing well” is not a heavy statement, but feels lacking to me for a letter. Whether that’s a personal issue or actually advisable, who knows? not me yet!

  15. other than letters and daily notes, as in health or the professional ones in professional

  16. meaning, not planning to finish in March, even if they can be explicitly finished

  17. Hmm I don’t have a good mental distinction between the two. Should I?

  18. digital, and also the time that I have right now (spacetime is a thing! That means space is interchangeable with time)

  19. and also January

  20. conveniently hitting the second point

  21. not eating well probably doesn’t help that fact, but

  22. read: the youtubers I enjoy or whatever audiobook I’m listening to

  23. not in a good way

  24. the space I have reserved in the library is very cage-like

  25. as I’ve been writing this, I’ve also been catching up on text with friends, and remembering the correct usage of full stops is always a fun journey when swapping between the two back and forth

  26. at least the way I do them

  27. wow this reflection is getting rambly faster than I would have expected (rambley? spell checker dislikes both and googling (I had a moment of “I don’t use google or to support it”., then remembered brand dilution is a thing) doesn’t seem to immediately treat either as a word

  28. TTBB! My first ever I realize

  29. not the stem or calyx (which is a term crochet embroidery pattern makers feel wayyy too loose in using, imo)

  30. me, if I bothered to pay attention

  31. whoops

  32. which is a blog post I should do

  33. hey cool, my writing pace is still around 2k an hour, which is right around 30 a minute. Given that I have to think about what I’m going to write, along with the fact that I’ve been multitasking and correcting all my errors, I’m really happy with that

  34. they were, unsurprisingly, fantastic

  35. which I did, in fact finish after the recital but before I left

  36. no, that was not connected to the theology in any way, shape, or form

  37. and, wildly, it was really great. One review put it nicely “it shouldn’t have been as enjoyable as it was”, since it did really have a pretty predictable and generic plot, caricatures of characters (ooh that’s a great line, I need to do something with that in the future), and the outdated sexual morals of the 1970s (consent is much different now)

  38. not so much we got scooped as the field came to the knowledge as a whole

  39. thankfully metaphorical

  40. he’d say public engagement, and I agree with his points

  41. i.e. probably today in between reviewing documents with the group

  42. Deep down, this feels like something related to spirituality, but for the life of me, I cannot find the words to describe how

  43. ah yeah simple is probably what I meant

  44. in the sense of video games to pass the time, not in the sense of any shared experience with people

  45. I think that’s a new phrase but

  46. wow I had no idea where the t’s in that word went

  47. that feels wrong to say, but I am in general struggling to find the words to express myself. That’s part of why I want to get back into journaling and poetry

  48. once again the wrong word, but like I feel better when I have a journal with me, regardless of my intention to write

  49. mentally and emotionally

  50. Drawing is really the big one here. I don’t care about it when I don’t have time, and when I do have time, I do. That’s interesting enough, and is probably something I can keep in mind as I move forward in life. The more space I have, the more I care about learning to draw

  51. retroactively placed above artistic after first point there because I was (am as of right now) unsure whether I should put writing there. Why I don’t think of writing as artistic is a question for another time

  52. yes, I realize that I am not a mind, body, and soul as three distinct parts, but it does help me to think of the driving reason behind each. Secondary effects are not primary

  53. there’s a post that I’ve seen that means a lot to me talking about how there’s no bad calories, and also that potatoes are not great in spite of caloric density, but in part because of it

  54. acids??

  55. oof this is getting rambly

  56. in that like I want to be able to mindfully take breaks

  57. this is kinda new buttttt

  58. if we redraft, move them down here

  59. if alone

  60. probably, though that’s something I shouldn’t say there. Hmm what is something that I can say that feels true and is helpful (this was initially going to be followed by wronged, but the new one is better)

  61. like not necessarily meaning to the same degree, because that’s not important

  62. obviously make sure they agree with the goals, but for now make it aspirational

  63. ooof helping one of the fellow students in my group with a coding issue really took me out of this. The next like 600 words I spent describing the difference between how I feel also did

  64. taking a break here for work with the group. Returning: let’s keep going